Stop
Sexual harassment is unwelcome sexual
conduct, which creates a hostile work environment and affects your ability to
do your job.
·
Staring
or leering, looking intensely in a sexual way.
·
Sexual
insults, unwelcome comments about your body.
·
Explicit
or implicit sexual jokes or gestures.
·
Obscene
language.
·
Displaying
or circulating posters, signs, photographs or written materials that are sexual
in nature.
·
Demanding
sexual favors in exchange for job benefits.
·
Retaliating
or threatening retaliation for refusing to perform sexual favors.
·
Is
a form of discrimination, against the law and a violation of a worker's rights.
·
Violates
the self-respect and dignity of the victim.
·
Is
a serious problem.
·
Is
a human rights issue.
·
Is
not the victim's fault.
Effect on the Victim:
PHYSICAL: headaches, upset stomach, nausea, vomiting, insomnia, loss of
appetite.
EMOTIONAL: fear, confusion, hurt, anger, shame, helplessness,
depression, loss of job motivation or self-confidence.
ECONOMIC: loss of job, wages, or promotion.
EFFECT ON THE ORGANIZATION: low productivity and
profitability, tarnished image.
·
Welcome
mutual attraction, attention or friendship.
Talk to friends,
co-workers, family members, personnel officers, union representatives or a
women's organization.
Myth: Some
women ask to be sexually harassed by the way they act or dress.
Fact: When a businessman gets robbed, we don't blame him
for being well dressed. We blame the
robber. Yet, when a woman is sexually
harassed, we blame her for the way she looks!
There are no excuses for harassment, regardless of how a woman looks. In
any case, even women who do not dress or behave in a "sexy"
way get harassed.
Myth: If you ignore
harassment, it will go away.
Fact: It will not. Research shows that simply ignoring the
behavior is ineffective; harassers generally will not stop of their own
accord. Ignoring such conduct may even
be perceived as condoning or encouraging it.
Myth: Sexual harassment
is inevitable when men and women work together.
Fact: While attraction between the sexes might be inevitable, uninvited
sexual overtures are not.
Myth: Many women make up and
report incidents of sexual harassment to get back at employers or colleagues
who have angered them.
Fact: Unless a woman feels harassed, she doesn't complain
unnecessarily.
Myth: Sexual harassment is
really just a form of flirting and women
enjoy it, even if they pretend not to.
Fact: Sexual harassment is disrespectful and
offensive. If a person is interested in
another person, they show it in a respectful way, not by sexually harassing the
other person.
Instead you can:
Employees have a right
to work in an environment free from sexual harassment
Ensure
that this environment exists for all workers.
Include
a policy prohibiting sexual harassment in their
personnel
policies.
Inform
all employees about the policy.
Enforce
the policy consistently and fairly.
Forum For Women, Law and Development (FWLD)
PO Box: 2923
Swet Binayak Marg
Thapathali, Kathmandu
Phone: 977-1-242683
Fax: 977-1-240627
Email: fwld@fwld.wlink.com.np
International Labor Organisation, GPO Box 8971
Pulchowk, Kathmandu, Nepal
Phone: 977-1-522259,542148
Fax: 977-1-531332
Email: KATHMANDU@ilo.org
